The Truth is in the Middle
I have always believed that we are Black or White/Wrong vs Right
Make good choices – good things happen to you
Make bad choices – bad things happen to you
While it may be our desire to be more neutral – society and laws are not always that way
We either follow the laws or not
But I have learned that often the Truth is left up to one’s interpretation and value system
What concerns me is that people often believe what they hear to be TRUTH – when in fact; they were not involved in the situation.
We may think we KNOW the facts, when In fact we don’t
Unless you were THERE
Unless you SAW
Unless you HEARD
You do not KNOW
End of Subject
Doesn’t matter who told you (and they were THERE) – doesn’t matter what they say they SAW or HEARD – YOU were not there and believing the Report of another person leaves it open to self-interpretation
Interpretations are not facts
Interpretations are are just that – interpreting their point of view from their point of value system
So – before you hurdle out more gossip because you received an email “that you know must be true – just look at who sent it, they would never lie!”
Or receive a phone call from what you believe is a truth worthy source –
Think again
What’s the purpose of those so-called trustworthy sources telling you such things?
What do they hope to gain?
What do they hope to accomplish?
I say those who establish themselves as “authorities” in situations they know nothing about are nothing short of gossips, blabbers and immature tongue flappers.
I receive countless emails and phone calls claiming to tell me some juice tidbit about a company, a person a product or whatever. I don’t open the emails to read them and I don’t return those calls.
I will not wallow in someone else’s situation so I can be the Office Gossip and appear to be an authority
There are always three sides to every story:
Yours
Theirs
And then somewhere in the middle, is the Truth
“He who is without sin – should cast the first stone”
Surely, as I sit here – those who choose to hurdle to others – you will be the next one on the chopping block – and then you can watch how others (who you thought were your trusted friends) will gossip about you
For me, I support my friends and know they have made mistakes, as I have made many mistakes myself
I prefer to keep my opinions to myself
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To Your Success,

Charlene L. Ragsdale – Las Vegas, NV
Award Winning Network Marketer, Business Blogger, Public Speaker & Host of IMPACT Radio Channel
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